by Jane | Jan 5, 2017 | Personal stories |
How would you feel with greater self-esteem?
Would you like to believe in yourself and your own abilities again?
Would you like the confidence to travel the world or to stand up in the office and make that presentation or to go and see that show in the theatre on your own or …….basically to do anything that scares you?
To celebrate the start of a brand new year I am giving one lucky person a place on the Smash the Pumpkin Project which is worth £997 absolutely FREE!!
Make 2017 the year that you change
To be in with a chance of winning simply:
1 – Join our Smash the Pumpkin Facebook Tribe – this is where the live draw will take place!
2 – Enter your name and email into this link – http://jclementine0.gr8.com/
3 – Like and Share this post.
So, what will the lucky winner receive?
- Free enrolment in the Smash the Pumpkin Project. You will receive challenges and activities all carefully designed to lead you out of your comfort zone and to build your self-confidence and self-esteem.
- Regular contact and support throughout the length of the programme.
- Motivation as you learn to trust in yourself whilst your self-esteem grows
- Guidance along your journey without any toe-curling embarrassment
You will have EVERYTHING you need to achieve the results you long for in 2017 because we’ve got everything covered.
The winner will be drawn live on January 8th, so don’t forget to join the group so that I can tag you if you win! It’s as easy as 1 2 3!
This draw is limited to the first 1000 people who enter so don’t delay – and good luck.
I look forward to welcoming you to the group and I’ll see you there on the 8th January.
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And me? What stories am I planning to bring you in 2017?
I will tell you about my time in Cambodia, Singapore and Malaysia as well as my epic road trip around the south of Spain and I am hoping to visit Myanmar and Bali. I would love it if this were the year that I could experience the Northern Lights and even Japan.
And to think, that before I set off on my own to Peru I had dreadfully low self confidence and self esteem. If you want to boost yours, then don’t forget to sign up for this free draw – you just have a few days
Have a very happy and healthy 2017
by Jane | Sep 27, 2016 | Personal stories |
…or what you will learn when you travel with me!
Join me on one of my 1 to 1 fully accompanied tours and you will experience so much more than a holiday. We will get under the skin of a region or a country but you will learn much, much more. During your trip we will have some great fun and I can let you into the secrets of my Top 10 Travel Tips.
Travel with me
If you want a holiday but you don’t want to travel solo or if you don’t fancy a group tour then come with me. I will be your travel buddy.

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Some of the following tips will be more relevant if you want to join me on my Beginner’s Backpacking trip (such as surviving a dormitory) but as we travel together, who knows; maybe I can inspire you to up your happiness levels to a whole new sphere and persuade you to go backpacking next time!
Find out more about my personalised tours at this Travel With Me link but do read on, and learn about my Top 10 Travel Tips. They are:
- Getting lost is an art form
- Dormitory do’s and don’ts
- How to read a street map
- What to pack in your rucksack
- How to eat like a local
- How to navigate around the public transport system
- How to haggle and barter
- How to spot a scam
- How to avoid or survive sickness while travelling
- How travel will boost your self-confidence and self-esteem
Top 10 Travel Tips
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Getting lost is an art form
If you follow my blog you will know that I am always getting lost. I can read a map. I can navigate with a compass but I am always getting lost.
Part of my problem is that I exit a bus station or a hostel and while I may understand that my road lies to the left, very often the road to the right looks far more interesting. I tell myself, I will just wander along it for a few minutes to see what is around the next corner, and then, bam! I don’t have a clue where I am.
I have however turned this into an art form and I will often now actually proactively go out of my way to lose myself with a series of games that I play when I have some free time.
I have also got many tricks which help me to get back onto track again and which usually get me out of trouble. They work. Usually.

which way?
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Dormitory do’s and don’ts
I love to sleep in dormitories. I actually now sleep better when there is gentle breathing around me and I feel safe knowing that there are people around should there ever be any trouble.
However, there are some dormitory nightmares out there and believe me the nicest people can be VERY grumpy when their sleep is disturbed. Do you want to avoid being the one who gets hissed at or worse when you turn the light on at 3 in the morning? Do you want to know what the other major mistakes are that are made by those horrible people that everybody hates?
Here’s a big hint and no doubt you will be thinking how obvious but yes, it happened to us in our hostel in Siem Reap. And now once, but 3 mornings running. A girl crept quietly out of bed at 4.30 am, showered and then proceeded to blast her hair dry for 10 minutes with a hairdryer! Who would ever think that behaviour like that was acceptable?
I can tell you all of the things to avoid being that traveller from hell and all the things that you can do to make your stay a great one.
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How to read a street map
This may be a strange one to put in here from somebody who is always getting lost but I can navigate from a map. Drop me in the middle of the countryside with a decent ordnance survey map and a proper compass and I will get you home. Street maps come in various standards of quality, they may not be to scale so you could end up walking miles and things that are marked on there may not be there any longer. But I am capable of reading a street map and I can give you plenty of tips to help you too. And no, I don’t need to turn it upside down either.

I got horribly lost following this map
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What to pack in your rucksack
Everybody takes too many things when they go travelling for the first few times but believe me, after you have tried to run for the bus with your full pack on your back or staggered along a country lane because the train station is in the middle of nowhere, or balanced yourself precariously on the back of a motor taxi with your back pack threatening to drag you off unceremoniously onto your bum, you will soon weed out the unnecessary things that you are lugging around with you. I can give you information on the best bag to buy (in my opinion) and also the best things to put in it.
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How to eat like a local
It’s nice to treat yourself when you are on holiday but it can work out to be very expensive if you eat out and often you will just find yourself eating generic food that you can buy back home. Pizza is always my go-to fallback but pizza is pizza. I try to eat in the local markets with the workers or from carts in the street with the school children. If I am in a cafe or a restaurant I will opt for the local speciality or if I can’t choose, I ask the waiter what is their favourite, or I stick a pin somewhere in the menu. Stay in a home stay or volunteer on a work exchange programme – these will open your food world to a whole new experience. And if I am in a town where I am spoilt for choice and I simply can’t decide where to eat – why I think of a number and I count up to that number as I pass the various establishments – and I have to eat at #6 (or wherever).

Finger food in Malaysia
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How to navigate around the public transport system
Again, this one often goes hand in hand with getting lost but it can open up new horizons. Many of the developing countries have state of the art transport systems as money is ploughed into their infrastructure. It was a bit of a shock to the system to find that the only way to where I was going in Medellin was via a cable car and it feels like something out of a futuristic film to skim across the top of a city in a SkyTrain.
At the opposite end of the scale there are the chicken buses, jeeps, motorbike taxis and tuktuks. Crammed in cheek to jowl with goats, chickens and babies, they may be hot but you certainly connect with local people and more often than not may have a baby plonked on your lap to take care of, or the family next to you will share their fruit with you.

Hitching a lift from a truck driver
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And why not backpack? There are many benefits when you stay in a hostel and backpack but it can be really daunting planning your first trip especially when you want to go solo. Join me on my Beginner’s Backpacking course and I will meet you at the airport and show you the ropes. We will travel together for a couple of weeks and then when you have the confidence you can set off on your own. And if you get in at the start, well I plan to be around Malaysia for a couple of months so I won’t be very far away should you need a friend. What are you waiting for? There are some real flight bargains out to Asia at the moment.
Here are the next 3 of my Top 10 Travel Tips
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Learn how to haggle and barter
Smile, don’t start to haggle unless you really want to buy something, smile some more, be realistic about the price (people have to feed their families), smile and smile.
Know when to walk away, know when to give in and pay up and smile.
In many countries haggling is THE way to shop. When you live somewhere for a while you soon learn the acceptable price for things and if you are off to the shops the best thing that you can do is to observe the locals. Wander slowly around the market eavesdropping and watching how many notes are passed over for the items that you have your eye on. You can expect to have a higher price quoted just because you are a tourist but there are ways to reduce that and have some fun into the bargain.

Top 10 Travel Tip #7 – How to haggle
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How to spot a scam
I have been scammed and it’s not a great feeling but I put it down to experience and I am sure that bad karma will come around to THAT woman in George Town eventually. I know of travellers who have come off far worse than me and I reckon that I am pretty street-wise now. I have been able to warn friends off from obvious tricks which have included a cab driver taking off with our luggage and the baby milk trick. Travel with me and I can bring you up to speed on the popular scams and show you how you can be careful but don’t allow fear to stop you from taking chances.

This trusting couple invited us to shelter in their home during a storm
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How to avoid or survive sickness while travelling
I got around South America with nothing more than altitude sickness and then I made up for it in S E Asia big time! But I have pared down my first aid kit and I buy medicines as and when needed. Often, so long as you get past the language barrier, the local remedies are the best anyway. You can’t beat a herbal tea from a waitress who sees you clutching your stomach, Chinese medicine for a parasite or coca leaves for altitude sickness? And forget Deet with all of its toxins. Buy and use whatever the locals use for an insect repellent.
Keep your immune system raised with fresh fruit juices and vegetables and keep away from too much booze and drugs. If you do get sick it can also be worth paying some extra money and buying a night or two in a private room.

fresh coconuts – the cure all
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And my final Top 10 Travel Tip is….
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Travel will boost your self-confidence and self-esteem
When you travel you will probably have a drama or three but as you come out the other side you will realise that you did survive and, probably, you will have learnt a valuable lesson. And those lessons are not just about how to cope when your bus catches fire or you get your money stolen on the border, but they are lessons which will reveal much about yourself and your abilities.
If you join me on one of my tailor made tours what can you expect?
Firstly, you will have a fully personalised tour tailor made just for you. You will find out all about my Top 10 Travel Tips which I have compiled after more than three years travelling solo.
You can be confident that you will benefit from my travel experiences and you will have a fantastic holiday. I can’t guarantee perfect weather but the food will be awesome, the accommodation comfortable and the activities will be interesting.
Travel with me
All of the tour packages that are available as Something Slightly Different came about in response to many of you, my readers, asking of you could travel with me. I am now giving you that opportunity. Read the links in this article and if you have any questions feel free to drop me an email or reply in the comments below.
Before you go, I have a question for you.
I would love to travel with you and get to know you better. If you are hesitating about booking a tour with me, tell me, what is stopping you?
by Jane | Apr 26, 2016 | Asia, Hostels, Personal stories |
I have to admit, I’ve been lucky up until now with getting sick while travelling, but since I have been in S E Asia I have had all sorts of stomach bugs and viruses.
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During one whole year in South America my only problems were suffering from altitude sickness and getting myself a nasty little parasite after I drank untreated well water in Colombia.
I had a couple of snotty sneezy colds while I was travelling through the Baltics and I twisted my knee on a hike up a mountain in Spain.
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I don’t count the coma-induced hangovers due to over-indulging on pisco, rum or that sneaky-killer aguardiente. They are just part and parcel of never growing up but it’s been a different story recently and I keep getting sick while travelling in SE Asia.
But now, here in South East Asia I have been getting sick in every country that I have visited (to date).
If you take one thing away from this article it should be to NEVER travel without decent travel insurance. It doesn’t have to be expensive but it could save a whole host of problems and expense further down the line. I use the long stay package from Alpha Travel Insurance you can get your own up-to-date quote here.
Stomach bugs, viruses and bronchitis
Thailand – I got a stomach bug in Chiang Mai that kept me close to a bathroom for 3 days (probably caught from my landlord who had the same). Delhi Belly, Montezuma’s Revenge, call it what you will, I was up and down the stairs to the (shared) bathroom like a yoyo.
Laos – After eating just a couple of spoonfuls of suspicious smelling food in the northern mountains of Laos I got sick.
Immediately following this dodgy meal we spent three long travel days on crowded minivans which threw us from side to side on the hairpin bends in the mountains int he norht of Laos, driven by evil drivers who would stop on open lay-bys with not even a small shrub for cover for communal toilet breaks.

getting sick while travelling – this is where I got food poisoning
At this stage I was beyond caring and I would tramp over to the nearest patch of grass with my toilet roll and squat like the locals in full sight of everybody. I simply wanted to give up and sleep.
I eventually presented myself at the hospital in Laos where tests proved that I needed (more) antibiotics along with a traditional Chinese medicine.

Cambodia – I contracted a 24 hour stomach bug on the island of Koh Rong. Many others were sick before and after me but at least I was better before we got to our home-stay in the Cardamom Mountains with its very basic bathroom that was simply a hole in the floor flushed with water from a jug.
My friend Debs wasn’t quite so lucky because she was sick here and had to use this whole in the ground -but she did learn a new skill – and I quote: ‘I can now shit with precision through a hole in a polo!’
Vietnam – I loved the city of Hanoi but the weather was cold and damp and the city was VERY polluted. EVERYBODY in the city had a cough and in our 8-bed dorm all of the occupants were laid low with a variety of ailments.
I think I had the flu because for over a week I felt as if I had been trampled by a herd of water buffalo where every movement was agony and my lower back was on fire. When I did get upright for long enough to get outside there were several occasions where I went white as a sheet and everything went woozy and I came very close to fainting.
Here in Hanoi my cough then escalated to bronchitis and for the first time ever, I began to dream of having my own home and a nice little place where I could escape and pamper myself.

I loved Laos – but it was so cold in the north
Thailand (again) – this one was probably my fault for eating street food late at night when the vendors were packing up for the evening and things had been hanging around for too long. It did make for an interesting travel day flying from Krabi to Bangkok vomiting my way north. Thank goodness NOK Air supply plenty of strong sick bags.
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Look after yourself.
‘Stay healthy,’ they all say. ‘Look after yourself,’ and ‘you don’t want to go getting sick while travelling,’ is what every traveller is told before setting out.
It goes without saying that you shouldn’t take ice with your drinks (I do), you never drink the tap water (I do) and you don’t eat from street food vendors (I do). You peel all fruit, you don’t eat vegetables (a source of e-coli) and you avoid meat (refrigeration difficulties).
Certainly never drink the local home-brewed firewater at weddings in Vietnam, do not hire a scooter and certainly never get on the back of a motor bike taxi in Bangkok during rush hour without a helmet. Yes, right!!!!!
I break every one of these rules regularly and as I have already said, I lasted the entire year in South America with few ill effects.
I have some rules. I don’t balance on balcony railings, I would never bungee jump and I don’t knowingly eat road-kill (I suspect that was the problem in the mountains in Laos). I weigh up the risks and I take preventative actions accordingly.
Always carry toilet paper, wear a skirt on the buses (better to squat in public without baring your bum) and get yourself some little brown pills called berberine ( a herbal Chinese medicine that I swear are magic).

One welcome side effect of all of this was that I lost over a stone in weight and in an effort to rebuild myself I began to focus more on practising my limited capabilities of yoga and meditation.
When I was in Chiang Mai I made a huge effort to get up early some mornings and I joined Nathan from Fit Living Lifestyle and some other travel bloggers who were in town for circuits in the park. You can actually invite Nathan into your home as he has a whole series of online fitness plans for you to choose from so it doesn’t matter where in the world you are if you want his help to get healthy. Check out Nathan’s website here if you never seem to be able to find the time to get to the gym or to a class and see what he can offer you.
My experiences have led me to ponder on the topic of what to do if you do get ill on the road.
Dealing with getting sick while travelling.
Luckily I was never so sick that I needed hospitalization (the doctors in Laos were amazing but the ward was nothing more than a room with mattresses pushed together) and here in S E Asia I have mostly been travelling with friends who have supported me.
If I were solo I would have coped but I would have been 500 times more miserable than I was.
I was alone in Chiang Mai but there was a support network of bloggers and digital nomads in the town who offered to help. It was comforting to know that they were there should I need them.
A hostel would always (I hope) keep hold of your bag and personal belongings if anything really serious happened and you needed to be hospitalized, but as someone who occasionally keels over and faints, the worry is what happens if you are out on your own or travelling with all of your bags!
My full respect goes out to my friend Martin who travels with epilepsy and who does keel over occasionally.
The travel community is amazing and usually pulls together. Take the incidence in Chiang Mai when a traveller had a serious scooter accident and the call went out for blood supplies.
Lots of my friends queued up at the hospital to donate their blood. Here in Thailand, if you need a blood transfusion your relatives or friends have to reimburse the hospital with an equal amount of blood in donations so offers like this are always welcome.
When I was sick in Laos where very few people spoke English a Vietnamese doctor happened to be on the same minivan as me and my friend.
A little way through one of our nightmare journeys he realised that I was sick and he took it upon himself to keep an eye on me for the next few days in Vang Vieng. He offered to accompany me to the hospital in case I had any problems and he checked all of the drugs that I was prescribed, confirming them to be safe and I was very happy to be able to buy him a thank you drink when I got to Hanoi a few months later.
Living in a dorm and coping with sickness when travelling can be a double edged sword.
When you have hacking bronchitis you are very aware of disturbing your fellow travellers and if you have a vomiting or tummy bug you will find that you are constantly keeping a check on whether the toilet is occupied or not. Those are the days when it is more sensible to opt for a bottom bunk for a quick exit.
But when you are sick, there is something very comforting about having people, even strangers, around you and all but the hardest individual will invariably check up on you, running to the pharmacist or bringing you food and drink supplies.
Ask your dorm buddies to fetch you a bottle of cola and loosen the lid so that it loses its fizz. Flat coke works wonders for most types of sickness. Add the contents of a rehydration sachet to your [easyazon_link identifier=”B01F3P14YW” locale=”UK” tag=”scajonblo0e-21″]water bottle[/easyazon_link] and drink as much as you can keep down. If you have the squits ( I can’t spell diarreah) avoid taking anything which stop you going to the toilet unless you have a travel day – you want that shit (excuse the pun) out of your body asap.
And never ever never travel without Travel Insurance. (Travel Insurance is available from Alpha Travel Insurance as well as from other insurance companies)
If you are dealing with sickness while travelling and your finances allow, consider an upgrade to a private room. I was so lucky in Hanoi that I had interviewed Rezma before I got sick and she offered me a free stay in one of her amazing rooms in her bohemian hostel ‘See you at Lily’s’.
The timing was perfect. I staggered out of my 8 bedded dorm in my previous hostel in search of my comfort food of choice – of course a pizza – which I washed down with a reviving cup of zingy ginger tea. I then checked into my private room at ‘See you at Lily’s’ where I snuggled up under a thick duvet in a 6 foot wide bed with air con and a huge flat screen TV and I indulged myself with films late into the night.

See you at Lily’s hostel
Before Rezma and her business partners took over their hostel, the building was a hotel, so while it is now a hostel complete with dorm rooms, free breakfast and really great art work all over the place, they retained some of the private rooms as, well, private rooms.
I could write so much more about getting sick while travelling – especially in SE Asia, but I will leave you here for now. Don’t forget to check out Nathan’s website and if you are planning to visit Hanoi you should certainly visit Rezma and her team at ‘See you at Lily’s‘.
Of course, if you are very nervous about travelling solo then you can always opt for a small group activity holiday. With these you will have a tour guide who can iron out any problems as they occur and liaise with you and the medical professions. I was so glad that I was travelling with Explore when I went in India. I got dysentry and heat stroke which could have turned very serious had our guide not acted quickly when he did. Take a look at Explore’s destinations – I bet that they will go whereever you want to go

Feel free to share this article with anybody that you know who is travelling or may be thinking of travelling – it could save them some bad moments – but remember, I travelled for one whole year in South America and I had very few problems. Maybe I am just getting complacent.

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